Many parents try to protect their children from the imagery and situations seen in horror and action films. They feel that seeing relentless bloodshed and sadistic terror will warp a young person’s mind and drive them to pursue violent impulses later on in life. But while most parents are diligent in limiting children’s exposure to violence, they remain largely unaware of another dangerous piece of media that can warp their minds. That media is television sitcoms.
As you read this I’m sure you think what was written has to be a typo. How can sitcoms damage a young person’s mind? They’re shows designed to entertain through comedy. But a closer look into them reveals a hidden danger.
In many sitcoms a typical episode will run like this: the characters get into a troubled situation. Hilarity will ensue and by the episode’s end the problem is neatly solved and everything is more or less back to normal. While it may seem harmless for children to watch this, it can have a damaging effect. It can make children believe that life’s problems can always be solved quickly with a grand plan. If we get into a fight with someone we just need to come up with a hilarious and well meaning scheme and the fight will be over. In sitcoms problems are solved quickly and (with the exception of the grand scheme) neatly. Where in life this is far from how things are resolved.
In real life problems are very rarely quickly and simply solved. They are messy and complicated. An example is a serious fight between friends. By serious I don’t mean a disagreement on what restaurant to have dinner at. I mean an explosion of anger and words that leaves both parties hurt and shattered. A fight of this magnitude isn’t solved quickly by a quirky plan. It takes a long time of attempting to work through the issues that have come up as result of what happened. There are times where the friendship can not be salvaged. And in the event that it is it’s rarely the same again because of the line crossed from the fight. The fear of being hurt again causes the two to not trust each other as openly as they used to.
A perfect example of a resolution to a sitcom fight is in two episodes from the fifth season of the popular show “Will & Grace”. In the first episode, “The Kid Stays Out Of The Picture”, Grace decides to pursue a relationship with a doctor named Leo. Unfortunately this conflicts with her and Will’s plan to have a baby together. Once Will discovers that she wants to back out on their plan the two characters have one of the most intense fights ever seen in sitcoms. Long held resentment is brought up and each person pierces the other by throwing back their most negative character traits as if they were bullets. The episode concludes with Will throwing Grace out of their apartment and out of his life. In the second episode, “Humongous Growth”, Karen and Jack scheme to get their two friends to kiss and make up by tricking them into attending a kid’s birthday party without either knowing the other will be there. Once they find each other they continue to fight and squabble. Finally Karen essentially locks them up together by throwing their keys into a children’s ball pit. While rummaging through the pit Will and Grace talk about what happened and the issues between them. By the episodes end the two of them are friends again.
The fight in the first episode was so powerful and realistic that there needed to be a significant amount of time before it was resolved. While it’s known that they would have eventually forgiven each other (the title of the show is Will AND Grace after all) there should have been a few episodes gap before they made up. Instead it was quickly resolved in a timely manner. If youngsters see this they may think that is how it always is in life. That all of our problems in life, no matter how detrimental they are, can be solved in a quick and efficient manner. This means that impressionable youths can carry this belief into real life and thus be unable to deal with life’s problems once they arise.
In collusion I’m not saying that sitcoms should be outright banned from the family household. They offer entertainment and enjoyment. I’m saying that parents should reinforce to their children that what they are watching isn’t real life and they shouldn’t imitate what they are seeing. It may sound silly, but it could go a long way.
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